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Making "SELF PRIORITY" first

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  You all must have heard or know what is self priority. If not, It simply means giving compassion, time, energy and attention to oneself. Most of us know the happiness is the key to lead a good life, so acknowledging the things you love and why are important for your happiness. Why it is important: I believe sometimes we should all be a bit more selfish everwhen. As a day to day chores are important, similarly making time for yourself is equally important. It simply means knowing our needs, Taking care,  Feelings, Examining things around etc. For example; Give someone a suggestion and they might not always take it, But give suggestion to a same person about their child or pet, they have more commitment. It simply states that we're actually bad at prioritizing our own needs, over people around us. It might lead you to being stressed, tired, frustrated like you didn't make enough time for you in all your attempts. These emotions give no service to anyone, you can't perform y

Why it is important to make Mistakes ?

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As a Human, Nobody is perfect, no matter how much they say. The time we are born we make mistakes, be it major or minor. Mistakes are things which you did not intend to do or can produce undesirable outcome. Let us understand with Pros and Cons of the Mistakes. Pros:-  Teaches us lesson. Become more critical thinkers. Improves retention. Become more responsible and attentive. Cons:- Might lead into misconception. Can make you depressed. Feeling ashamed or dismay. Failing to reach goal. After comprehending the pros and cons of mistakes, now let us understand how mistakes are part of our life. People and animals often learn from their mistakes. Mistakes helps us to better understand ourselves. We learn to reflect on our own mistakes. Making mistakes is not a bad thing but just have to learn to accept it and make the best of a bad situation.  Mistakes, major or minor, always review yourself, make you aware and teach you important lessons in your life. Mistakes allow mentees to understand

Why and how you can distract yourself from worthless thoughts.

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We usually think about things which are unusual like thinking about things which might have happened in certain manner or worrying about someone who upload a sad status etc. As you can see people around are furious for things and making additional things which are ineffective. Making up settings arranging the things in a systematic manner is important, thoughts might be negative or positive.In both, the negative thought capture the most attention and begins with mood swings or dragging you down and continuing to focus on that thought exaggerates its effect. Some studies say that mulling over and over on negative thoughts for an extended period, it is a leading cause of depression and anxiety. It says that people who Use distraction method is likely to experience less anxious and depressive symptoms. Since our negative thoughts can often be nagging or destructing yourself is always not easy, But just telling yourself "I won't / should not think about that anymore", might w

Faith and Devotion

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 * Kindly go through the Disclaimer below https://personal-blitz.blogspot.com/p/disclaimer.html?m=1 PURE v/s BLIND This topic seems to be a loaded question. Since these things are not tangible or visible and yes indeed mean different to different people.  Are you a devotee or a person filled with faith? It's very obvious to keep faith, truth, belief on someone or something. Now let us understand actually what it is and how it is strained. In simple words faith is strong trust or belief or confidence in someone or something it also implies devotion and mostly used to refer to religion and its aspects. Faith is in religion, supernatural, job, God, a good friend, parents, a recipe etc. Sometimes things do not go according to plan will lose hope or faith basically it's deep-rooted in expectation of good things to happen. Faith is only as strong as the thing to which it is anchored. Let us consider an example, once upon a time a doctor prescribed medicines to his patient who was suf

Social Media Today

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Let us know more about the very knowingly known topic, The Social Media Platform .  Well...!!! Most of us know what it is, but do you know accurately? Many questions are raised when we hear about " SOCIAL MEDIA ".  In common parlance, we call these as Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Tumblr etc.  We live in time and age, where things and information is just a click away. We are humans who are really curious in knowing things it might be relevant or irrelevant, want to understand the matter of our mind from this millennium. This is why social media comes in the trend. Are you a member of any social media platform? If YES, are you spending yours most of the time scrolling? Are you handling it accordingly? Does it pull out your energy? Etc. There are many questions pops up, but let us run through the important part of this topic. Social media is on the biggest elements we live with and we cannot ignore it. Social media is not limited to only sharing pictures or creating c

Jealousy - The Histrionics

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Jealousy is often called as "Green-eyed monster" a literary theme for centuries. It is the state of feeling unhappy because someone or something you like or love, showing interest in another thing or person. This feeling of someone has something that you want or cannot have become the focus of systematic, Social science research.   It is mostly conceptualized by focusing on situation antecedent. How can you tell if someone is jealous?  As we know, we can tell many things by someone's facial expression, body gestures and etc. A person consciously or unconsciously can become a green eyed monster. Understand the following signs of jealousy: Celebrating others failure. Imitating someone.  False compliments. Gossip behind. Belittle on someone's success. Boosting their success. Crossing one's legs. Mighty plan spoilers. If you see any kind of signs within you or the people around, try it as it can harm your body and healthy mindset. Why sometime it is difficult to acc

Friends OR Friends'

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  The title must be bemusing.  Well! This is a simple topic on a trendy topic of all the time " FRIENDS ".  Friendship is an affection arising from mutual esteem and good will, a beautiful connection between people.  Friendship and friends sometimes can't be described in words. This is the most precious thing which always seemed to be respected and obeyed. Friendship can mean different things to different people. Today's kids, young adults are much better educated than their grandparents, as share of young adults with higher education has steadily raised. This generation is much educated, but somewhere losing the pure traits of life.  Now a days phones are replacing merits with any kind of relationships from friendship to flirting, committing to break up. Social media and phones are woven into peoples' lives. Currently, people maintain different kinds of people on different platform as friends. For example, Facebook friends, Insta friends Tinder friends, etc.  Acc